Question answered: How do guys touch breasts? Do they first put their hand under the bra? Or it’s the same?
Guys have an Action Plan when it comes to touching women’s breasts – and here it is in detail.
Typically, guys don’t go right in for the kill and start grabbing a woman’s breasts without thinking. Most guys know enough about how a woman responds to being kissed and fondled that most guys who have any experience under their belt will follow these general guidelines:
First, a guy with any common sense will kiss the woman he’s with for a minimum of several minutes with his lips directly on hers. He may start with gentle kisses, and then work his way up to slowly sliding his tongue into her mouth, playfully touching the woman’s tongue with his tongue. If the woman responds by slowly opening her mouth a bit, then the guy gets excited and the tongue action intensifies…
After several minutes of French kissing, a skillful lover may start kissing her neck, especially behind her ears where she’s extra-sensitive. To heighten her pleasure even further, he may place one of his hands on the back of her neck and gently move his fingers up and down the hair at the base of her head.
At this point, assuming he’s moving in sync with the woman, she should be getting sexually aroused just like he is.
That’s when he moves his other hand slowly up her shirt so he’s gently touching one of her breasts. If he’s paying attention – as he should be – he may feel one or both of her nipples getting harder. Once he feels an aroused nipple, that’s a sign that she’s ready for more action.
His next move is to start unbuttoning her shirt. If she’s wearing a pullover shirt instead of one with buttons, he may slide one of his hands under her shirt just like you see in the photo above. He wants to touch her breasts (and suck on her nipples, if he’s being honest) so his next move is to slowly lift up her shirt so he can put his hand on top of her bra. If she isn’t resisting, he’ll start slowly massaging her breasts while continuing to kiss her lips and her neck, one after the other.
To get her even more excited, he may kiss her ears and gently blow air into them one at a time – slowly but deliberately. Doing this will drive her completely crazy with sexual excitement and when that happens, his next move is to take one of his hands and reach around her back to unsnap her bra.
She may even start helping him at this point. Both of them are breathing faster and faster, and their tongues are dancing around like crazy – first in her mouth, and then in his.
At that point, he’ll make it obvious that he wants to take her shirt off altogether. If she’s been sufficiently aroused by all of this foreplay, she’ll be ready for him to start touching her breasts without any clothes on above her waist.
His next move is to gently kiss each of her breasts, one at a time. He may want to gently nibble on her nipples which, at this point, should be as hard as a rock.
He can suck on them, kiss them, fondle them, and then after several minutes of this if not longer, it’s time for the next step.
I’ll be happy to continue this in another post I write on a related topic.
Stay tuned!